Making Healthy Changes: How to Maintain Your Motivation
by Margaret Ashmore, LCSW
Most of us who
seek change do so voluntarily. Why then, is it easy to "get
off track"? Our desire for instant gratification and perfectionist
attitudes can get in the way. Change usually occurs in stages. Rarely,
does one decide to change and become immediately successful at maintaining
new behaviors. Habits take time to form. Even unhealthy habits, such
as smoking or excessive drinking usually start out as experimental behaviors.
Changing behavior so that it becomes a way of life is something that
develops over time.
Most of us brush our teeth everyday, usually at least twice. Even though
we spend little time thinking about it we do so because it is a habit.
Yet, we didn’t start out brushing daily, all on our own. We had
help; reminding, much prompting and maybe even a cavity or two before
it became a part of our daily life.
Approach developing other healthy habits the same way. Expect change
to occur in stages and over time. Choose reasonable goals that fit with
your current lifestyle. Challenge yourself to take on new goals while
at the same time being patient.
Below are some tips to get started and to help you maintain change.
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Make a
long-term goal for healthy eating and exercise to become a way
of life.
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Make a
short-term goal of adding one or two new behaviors over a period
of time and then increase your goals. For example, add walking
to your schedule two times weekly. After doing this successfully
for two weeks
add another day of walking, or add weight training two times
a
week along with the walking.
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Choose
reasonable goals that work with your schedule. Get up fifteen minutes
earlier. Walk one day
at lunch.
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Work toward
healthy behavior by eating more vegetables instead of focusing
on cutting out foods.
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Give yourself
positive reminders. Have your exercise clothes ready when you wake
up. Ask someone to be your
work
out buddy. Write positive notes
to yourself and stick them in obvious places.
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Prepare
healthy meals in advance if you have a demanding schedule.
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If you
get off track pick a new start date and don’t look
back.
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Make positive
self-statements about your effort, not just the results.
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Evaluate
your life and determine what changes you need to make to create
time for continued
success
of your
goals: Am I able
to reduce my work
hours? Could I ask a friend to
baby-sit?
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Be patient.
Results do not usually occur immediately but if you continue
on the
path of good health
you will see
benefits.
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Above all,
don't give up!