Condom Connection

Condom Connection

So you’ve decided to be sexually active, and you know that the only way to do it safely is to use a condom correctly, each time. Consider this “Condoms: 101.” Here are the basics you need to know when deciding what type of protection to use.

Latex or Polyurethane?

Latex condoms are by far the most common, most popular, and most affordable condom. They are available in hundreds of different colors, shapes, and sizes.

About 2% of the population is allergic to latex, so two condom makers have begun selling condoms made out of polyurethane, a synthetic fiber that protects just as well but is a little more expensive. For people with latex allergies, polyurethane condoms are a great alternative. Trojan makes one called Supra and Durex makes one called Avanti.

Male or Female Condom?

When you picture a condom, most likely the image in your mind is a male condom, which is a latex or polyurethane sheath intended to cover the penis during sex. Did you know that there is also a Female Condom? It’s made out of polyurethane and has a thin plastic ring similar to a diaphragm which holds it in place. The FC is great because it gives women the opportunity to protect themselves if their partner chooses not to wear a male condom. Because of its appeal to latex-allergic women, the FC is gaining in popularity.

Good Lubricant vs. Bad Lubricant

A major reason for condom breakage is that people use oil-based lubricants. Oil causes latex to deteriorate almost immediately, so unless you’re using a water-based lubricant which is made for use with condoms, you’re risking a condom breakage and potentially contracting and STD. Examples of water-based lubricants are K-Y Jelly and Astroglide. Check out the condom section at the drug store, some grocery stores, and Thagard’s pharmacy to find the lube that’s right for you.

Condom Excuses Debunked!

There are so many excuses why people don’t wear condoms, but the most common excuses can be debunked with common sense and a little insider information.

Too many people use the excuse “Condoms don’t feel right” as a reason to take risks with their health, but you’ll find that there are enough options so that you and your partner can practice safer sex in a way that you are both comfortable with. There are several novelty stores in Tallahassee that sell condoms and lubricant, as well as major drug stores and grocery stores. If privacy concerns you, there are many websites which sell condoms at very affordable rates and they will ship them directly to you in an unmarked box. Some brands sell multi-packs, which allow you to sample the different styles they make so that you can find the one that is right for you. Try out a few of these so that you are more comfortable practicing safer sex and can maintain your commitment to protecting yourself.

Another common condom complaint is that “They don’t fit.” Lifestyles offers Large condoms and Trojan offers Magum and Magnum XL (their version of large and extra large condoms respectively). These are made for men who feel that regular sized condoms are too snug. However, be sure that these are not too large or you may increase the risk of a condom coming off during intercourse. Plus, one should never NOT wear a condom because it is “too small”. If a regular size is all that is available at the time, USE IT. Try stretching one over your entire arm and you’ll be surprised how far they stretch. For men who feel traditional condoms are too large, Lifestyles also sells a condom called “Snugger Fit.” If you’ve experienced regular condoms slipping off during sex, give these a try.

For those of you who are clinging to the “I’m a broke college student. I can’t afford condoms” excuse, you’re out of excuses. Thagard provides free condoms! There is a condom dispenser on every floor of the health center, and you can receive a condom packet complete with STD information from the Health Promotion department on the 4th floor. Take advantage of this resource- it just might save your life.